Before the video hits the internet, I feel the wisest course of action would be to come clean on this issue.
I have used this word on a few occasions. I do not use it commonly, casually, or among strangers.
- I have used this word to describe men who are weak and who by their actions and choices earn my contempt. If I am really feeling my oats, I will use it to their face.
- I may have used this word in a private bedroom environment, with a willing partner. She did not seem upset with my choice of words at the time and she may have even encouraged it.
- I have occasionally used it as a play on words using images of a common house cat, for humorous effect.
I don’t see any of those usages as wrong, immoral, or crude. I make no apologies for having done so. I will likely do it again, whenever I feel like it. Why? Because I am not a pussy.